A great visit with Dad
Friday, January 31st, 2003Mom and Wes “had a real good meeting” with Dad tonight. David, the ICU nurse on duty this shift, had just given him a bath and told them that Dad had been very responsive and aware, helping by moving himself around to get cleaned up.
When they went in, Dad wasn’t responsive and Wes told Mom that he was probably tired out from the bath and all. But then David came in and dialed the Diprivan infusion rate down to zero, and after about five minutes Dad cracked his eyes and started to respond. They both held his hands, and he squeezed Mom’s hand. Wes said Dad must be mad at him because he’d driven the Lexus, and Dad smiled and then squeezed his hand, too.
They talked to Dad for a long time, as they stood by the bed holding his hands. Wes asked if he was in any pain, and he shook his head. They told him about everyone who had come by to visit, and everyone who had called, and he smiled and nodded. He told Dad about this website, and about how so many family and friends are keeping up and sending best wishes, and his mouth turned down and he teared up. Mom said he was really touched.
Wes told Dad how well he was doing and how optimistic everyone was about his recovery. He told him about the re-evaluation on Monday when they plan to remove the oxygen tube, and generally caught Dad up on his progress. Dad followed everything that was said and seemed to understand everything.
The whole time they were with him, Dad never became agitated at all; he was always in control of his senses, and never tried to move around or pull at his tubes. He just held their hands and looked at each of them, responding with light nods and shakes of the head and frequent smiles.
Dad tried to cough a couple of times, but couldn’t because of the intubation. In response, David came in to clear his airway and then dial the medication back up. Mom and Wes said good night and went out, then drove home for some much-needed sleep before they return in the morning.
They were both very happy about the visit, as I’m sure you all are. Thanks so much for continuing to keep up, and for continuing to pray for Dad and for our family.